Since 2008, Barack and Michelle Obama are held as a model couple, the couple as an example. They have 26 years together, two children and are happily married even after two stressful mandates as the first family of the United States of America. #couplegoals

Thanks to a newly published book, we, the simple mortals, can learn Barack chose Michelle, to implement it in our (desert) love lives.

Dan Pfeiffer, a former senior advisor to Barack Obama, writes in Obama's "Yes We (Still) Can: Politics in the Age of Obama, Obama, and Trump," Obama has three criteria when it comes to love of life, man with which is worth crowning.

First, "Give this advice to everyone when they ask me about marriage: do you find someone interesting? As long as you spend with your partner, you will not pass it to anyone else and it is important that you want to hear what to say. "

According to Obama, the next criterion is to find someone who does to laugh regularly. That explains dozens of photos of the duo laughing, of course.

And finally, "I do not know if I have children, but if you want, ask yourself whether she would be a good mother," in other words, make sure you have the same two goals and principles when it comes to family.

The ex-president's advice is based on the notion that marriage is a marathon, not a sprint. "Life is long. These things matter in the long run. "

Meanwhile, the situation of single 29-year-olds who want to get married after reading this.