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16 features of boring people

Shkruar nga Anabel

24 Prill 2019

16 features of boring people

Everyone has the capacity to be interesting, but some come naturally to some others. If you are worried that you are not the cuddle of your social group, we are here to help you.

Below are the sixteen vices of boring people, summed up by a series of Quora's posters titled "What Makes a Boring Man?"

1. Boring people can not find the middle of listening and talking in conversation. Let's call the asymmetry in the dialog. So either they speak and they do not hear or just hear and talk.

2. Boring people do not discern if the other party is interested in the conversation. They ignore the signals and the body language of the interlocutor, who has no interest.

3. Boring people do not make others laugh. Humor proves the ability to see an idea or event from a variety of perspectives and then to naturally turn into something to laugh.

4. Boring people have nothing to say.

5. Boring people always do the same. If you meet each evening at the same local one, nothing happens and consequently nothing is heard.

6. Boring people have no thoughts about them. If you have not once thought about the world around you, you do not have much to say.

7. Boring people do not know how to confess stories. To have someone interested and engage in the conversation, you must know to tell a story and first have to hearty what you are telling.

8. Boring people have nothing new to add. If you do not tell something new to the listener, you will not be stimulated by your efforts.

9. Boring people can not put themselves in another. Therefore emotional intelligence is the key to a qualitative conversation.

10. Boring people do not involve others in conversation.

11. Boring people do not know how to improvis. No matter whether you are informed or not on the topic, you just have to feed something the interlocutor.

12. Boring people are negative. Or victimize, or blame others, or think that others have taken the opportunity.

13. Boring people repeat themselves.

14. Boring people are obsessed with what others think.

15. Boring people want to prove again how smart they are. Exaggerating as the smartest of the room can attract the attention of others, but it may also make you look unfriendly.

16. Boring people are always bored.