?I got married young when I was 21 and I have seven years with my husband. During this year, I have realized that my sexual desire has dropped drastically because I no longer have the boring sex with my husband. I enjoy so little that I prefer not to get into this job at all.

I have tried to talk to him, but he says he prefers sex without too much heat and uncomplicated. I had enjoyable sexual experiences before I got acquainted with her, but it seems, I like being dominated, which I discovered when I last betrayed her. I kept the secret and the blame for myself, but I told my husband that I like to be dominated. He will make me happy, but I see that he does not like to do so. He denies it, because sex is after all, but two slaps in the back don't make it dominant. I have asked for an open relationship so that I can make my fantasies a reality, but he fears losing me. It also seemed to put him in front of an ultimatum. However, I told her that even if she refused, I would not bother with her.

When I was younger, I thought something was wrong with me because everyone preferred monogamy, but it never drew me. I'm not jealous and I would have no problem having sex with other people. In fact, the idea just excites me, but he is not interested. I know you love me and I know I love you. So far, I've just suppressed my desire for BDSM sex, but I don't know for how long I can.

What do I do? Keep the fantasies to myself? To betray you again or beg for an open relationship? We have a three-year-old daughter, so this marriage must work. "

Written by an anonymous woman on City Pages.