Present at the show hosted by ORAT, a network for empowering girls and women in Albania, held in arTurbina, Estela Ujka recounted her life, starting from childhood, to stopping career and finally marriage .

Raised in a family where her mother had been persecuted, and her father a man with two college education, Estela recounted that she had also experienced domestic violence in the past. "Dad was authoritarian, more dominant and he should have always been right," she said. "We grew up in this environment, with a very loving, dedicated and loving mum and a better-placed father who should have always been right when he spoke."

She also focused on her love story with her husband, with whom she has three daughters.

"It happened that I fell in love with the man, then, wrong for the whole of Albanian society," she said, adding that the partner had had a previous marriage.

?For them it was the end of the world. They certainly gave the wrong solution possible. They found another man. Of course there were moments of violence; i have forgiven them and i love them equally i know that deep down for my good they have been tried, even though the form was wrong. They should have listened to me, as I do my daughters. "

?Today, my seemingly wrong choice is the father of my three daughters, the one with whom I built my life. I love him and he continues to love me the same. It's not the kind of monster my parents thought, ?concluded the blogger, who advised the audience not to be afraid of themselves and to go through the barriers that hinder them.

It is not the first time Estela has spoken openly about love. Three years ago, she spoke to Class Magazine:

?Our love story began as a game challenge, until we both fell in love and realized that our love was impossible. Lenci came from a completed marriage and my family never accepted my choice. So the only way was to escape. Our honeymoon was in Petrella, hidden around the world with a chimney we didn't even know how to use. ?