Dating

What to remember when you are the one who invited someone on a first date

Shkruar nga Anabel

1 Tetor 2021

What to remember when you are the one who invited someone on a first date

1.

Most important of all: behave as you really are, not "present" yourself properly!

2.

Do not ask for approval like "I want to go out with you, I hope you like it". It does not matter if the meeting is the first or the fifth, you will be much more successful when you do not necessarily expect the approval of the other party.

3.

Take care of the other person. Do not just deal with superficial things, but listen to what the other person wants to say.

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The opposite of # 3. What you say also matters. During the meeting, listen to what your heart tells you. Do not try to be interesting. Be real.

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When inviting someone to a date do not rush. Take the time you need, as rushing can be taken as a sign of anxiety, arrogance or nervousness.

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Know yourself. Express yourself and all the qualities you want to be characterized by.

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If you feel nervous or embarrassed, so will the person you invited to the meeting. Be honest, show what goes through your mind and heart.

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If you want to say what you think but want to feel free to do so, ask permission. "Can I ask you…" "Can I say something?" With them, even if the permission is unspoken, the other individual is respected.

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Getting to know the other person and letting them know you is an intimate process. The root of the word "intimate" means "natural or essential". It is natural and essential to show who you really are.

Source: Huffington Post