Mary Jo Rapini, a psychotherapist who specializes in intimacy, sex and relationships, says the key is to make sure your relationship is strong enough to handle a common sexual fantasy and that it is something you both love. Communicate with your partner and choose from this list:

- Include paints, ice, food

- Make a game where you have to find each other's fantasies

- Put some fantasies on pieces of paper, close and select some of them in the form of bingo

- Try the "boss and clerk" scenario.

- Sexy nurses

- Police officer

- Athlete

- Create scenes from "50 Shades of Gray" or "365 Days"

- Have sex in a forbidden place or not suitable

- Invite a third person to join you

- Get involved in group sex

- Enjoy yourself while your partner sees you (or vice versa)

- See each other masturbating

- Include sex toys

- Striptease

- Go to a strip club

+ Include other ideas you have, but we did not mention them

Source: Women's Health Magazine