When it comes to love life, there are a certain number of women who feel that because they are 'too good' the relationship gods are being cruel to them. They look around at their friends and family who are happily married or in relationships and think they are cursed because they don't have that special someone to share their life with.
If everyone is telling you how amazing you are, but you're still lonely and haven't found that special someone to share your life with, you might want to check out the list below. Based on psychology, these are the only reasons why a woman, no matter how good she is, can grow old isolated and lonely:
1. You haven't left your past behind.
After you may have had your heart broken, it is very difficult to let go of that memory for fear of it happening again. When we are young we learn that if we touch the stove we will get burned. The pain of that experience makes us understand that if we touch hot things we feel pain.
As a result, we quickly learn to avoid those things that are hot. When it comes to meeting new people, having been "burned" before often causes women to avoid situations or relationships where they fear they might get hurt again like before.
2. Make bad choices
The outcomes of our lives are directly proportional to the quality of our choices and decisions. If you are currently single and frustrated with the men you have been involved with, you may want to look at how the choices you have made have contributed to your misery.
If you notice that you've made some bad choices, don't be too critical of yourself for them. Use them as learning experiences to make better, smarter choices next time.
3. You are waiting for love to come to you on its own.
The chances of the doorbell ringing and the man of your dreams walking in are very slim. You can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket first.
The clearer you are in what you are looking for and the more men you meet, the easier it will be for you to find the person you are looking for.
4. You are afraid to take action outside your comfort zone.
One of the interesting things about finding love is that you can't find it unless you make decisions that make you feel vulnerable.
Yes, it's a risk to put yourself in such situations, but the reward is worth it. That's how life works. You can't reap the good fruit if you're not willing to sacrifice a little of your comfort.
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Source: Your Tango
