Heartbreak after a breakup makes a loved one miserable, and what's worse: these people wallow in their misery with specific actions that don't help them at all on the path to healing. Here are some of these actions:

1. Blaming your ex for every problem

We all know that person who only realizes after a breakup how ugly their ex was, how much they didn't deserve someone like him/her in their life, etc. But the reality is that there are two people in every relationship, and both of them are responsible for what happened.

2. Focusing only on good memories

What about those days when you got so upset that you didn't talk for two weeks, forgetting whether you were partners or not? What about when he made those offensive teasing remarks to you when you were all together in a social group? What about when she got so jealous that she insisted on tracking your location 24/7? Nostalgia is the biggest liar in life.

3. Still staying friends on social media

Out of sight, out of mind. By staying friends on Instagram even after the breakup, what are you trying to prove? That you're very sporty and don't mind seeing your ex's stories who is living their best life right after your breakup? Or do you think you're being smart and leaving the possibility of a reunion open? Do yourself a favor: block them right after the breakup !

4. Stuck in self-pity

It's not a solution to sit around and overthink the ways things could have gone differently. Chances are, if you're doing this, you also believe in the things written, right? Well, then let the universe decide for you and get on with your life.

5. Isolation or association with dramatic people 

"Misery seeks company," the saying goes, and it's no coincidence that newly separated people either always isolate themselves at home or start associating with people who share the same depressive mindsets at that time in their lives.

6. Staying single "because you don't know" 

Desperate to get back together with their ex, newly separated people categorically eliminate the possibility of a new relationship. They will never admit it if you point out such a mistake to them, though.

7. Desperately relying on friends and family for support

Since every separated person enjoys their pain a lot at first, they don't realize that they become the worst nightmare of family and friends, mainly by repeating the story of how they broke up with their ex and how sad and lonely they feel thousands of times.

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