"Come on, come on with me... A sexy video duuuua" said Big Mama in one of her songs, but when she thought she really saw sex scenes in "Ferma VIP 2" she was scandalized, even realizing that people have sex and started pulling her vocal cords out of place! Even if you don't watch "Ferma VIP 2", you may have still come across various videos, where Big Mama yells at Alba and labels her as "immoral" and "dishonest", because she claims that she had sex with another farmer, Lim Hotin.

In pointless debates, where Big Mama doesn't have any arguments, but simply insults, she screams and shouts, to degrade the other farmer. Now, let's admit that the debates are excessive and yes, Big Mama doesn't care at all about who Alba has sex with, whether she dances provocatively or not, etc., etc.
 
Let's start from the genesis: Why is Big Mama so concerned about the body of an adult girl, who says she likes a boy and wants to sleep with him? For us, it doesn't pose any problem, because after all, we aim to live in a free world, where girls do what they want to do and no one judges another girl for their body. And in fact, this is not a utopia, but simply a right that we should all enjoy. Even if Alba has chosen to "play" this way to get far on her journey on "VIP Farm" or if she really likes Lim, it is still up to neither us nor Big Mama to judge, but rather the public that votes for her.

To put it bluntly, erotic scenes on TV are not very pleasant, especially when there is no warning "The show should be viewed by people +18 years old", but we do not believe that Big Mamma is bothered by this, but she has a personal problem with Alba. (We remember the offensive imitations, or even the first attacks from the moment she entered the farm). 
 
And second: Why is Alba immoral, but Lim "very okay"?
 
Big Mama often tells Alba (who is not the person who protects herself the most) that he uses and exploits her for a one-night stand, not knowing at all that maybe Alba also just wants to have sex with Lim. The nature of their relationship is unknown, it is simply alluded to by Big Mama, who does not make much of a connection between her mouth and her brain and shouts inappropriately about the lives of others. 
 
Her comments are filled with anger, misogyny and perhaps it is time for a reaction from the reality show itself. What Alba, Limi, me, you and all the people in the world do in bed, as long as it is consensual and there is not even one action that the other party will not perform, should not be discussed with the intention of denigrating and aiming to target it. Morality and honor are not based on sexual relations, they are matters of principle, which are not related to our sexual desires, so let's move away from the stigmas that turn us into caves and be as open-minded and feminist as Big Mama has claimed in her career.

Calling a girl "dishonest" on public television is equally inappropriate, even problematic, because once again, we return to the culture of denigration, lynching, and inequality between (the same) actions between women and men.