1. Always put yourself in his shoes
By showing empathy you strengthen the bond and make the relationship with him much healthier. One of the best ways to do this is to imagine yourself in his/her position. Empathy is the highest level of understanding and people who don't have it are destined to always have misunderstandings and problems in their relationships. Think about how the other person feels in their current situation and how you would feel in their place.
2. Communicate about every kind of emotion
The golden rule for any healthy relationship no matter what is good communication. This rule is best applied by being empathetic. Listen to your partner more, show them that you understand what they are going through and don't judge their emotions.
3. Interact by asking questions
By being more involved in your partner's emotions, you can tell when something is wrong with them even if they don't speak at all. When you start asking a few questions about their state of mind you let them know that you are there for them and are invested in their happiness in this relationship.
4. Don't judge
A true couple grows and learns from and with each other. This means that instead of judging or criticizing, help your partner and never put him in difficult positions - which can make him feel small.
5. Take on some of his responsibilities
For a long-lasting relationship, a good way to become more empathetic is to take on some of your partner's duties and responsibilities. This can help you understand what it means to do his chores and at the same time it will make you both feel good.
6. Don't forget to consider his needs and desires
Before any decision, do not think only about yourself, but try to understand and decide taking into account the needs and wishes of your partner. Take his/her opinion and respect his/her needs/desires because this way you not only show respect, but you get closer to each other.
7. Be present when he needs you
Empathy means being present and understanding without the need for explanations. It is not easy to see the person you love going through a difficult period, but it is important for you and him to be there - especially in the most difficult times.
8. Compassion, patience and tolerance will save you
Try to be tolerant whenever you get the chance. Understand the other and be patient as going on the offensive is the smartest choice you can make. Put your anger aside, don't make decisions when you're angry, and speak tactfully.
Source: Bustle
