Did you break up a while ago, but still have cards by your nightstand that come in handy whenever you have moments of weakness or frustration? Here are some ways to get over your ex and take control of your life forever.

#1 First let yourself suffer (for a while)

Treat moments of melancholy as something natural that will take a different form over time. At first you have to accept the sadness without resisting it, otherwise it will increase.

#2 Enough idealizing things, get back to reality

When you experience the end of a relationship, remember only the good things. Don't idealize your ex, but keep your feet on the ground and remember the difficult moments and problems that led to the breakup.

#3 Turn your eyes away from yourself

Start appreciating yourself, try to stay in relationships that make you feel good, create new relationships, take up hobbies and interests that are unique to you, and rediscover who you are.

#4 Don't feel unfulfilled

You can feel fulfilled even alone. That's why you should know that you have all the necessary things to feel better than before, it's time to discover them.
 
Source: Grace