Dating

Are they breaking up with you too quickly? You might be making these embarrassing mistakes

Shkruar nga Anabel

21 Prill 2025

Are they breaking up with you too quickly? You might be making these

In the first month of a relationship, emotions are high and you may feel excited, but you can also make some mistakes that could damage the relationship. This period is sensitive and to avoid quick breakups, it is important to be careful not to take some actions that may seem hasty or unhelpful.

Making plans too quickly

In the first month of dating, be careful not to make far-fetched plans for the future. This is a period to get to know each other and avoid the pressure of hasty planning.

Using the word "love" too early

Saying "I love you" too early can create pressure and make your partner feel intimidated. It's better to keep things simple and focus on feelings of liking and interest.

Talking about the wedding too early

Talking about marriage in the first month may seem too hasty and desperate. You should wait for the relationship to develop further before thinking about a future together.

Introducing your partner to the whole family

In the early stages of a relationship, introducing yourself to family can send the wrong message and create pressure. You should avoid involving family and friends until the relationship is stronger.

Making joint purchases

Buying shared items too early in the relationship can add a premature level of commitment. Keep purchases personal and avoid involving large financial sums.

Talking negatively about your ex

Criticism of your ex can create the impression of an unstable and insecure person. You need to focus on yourself and not on past stories.

Asking for money

Asking for money in the first month of a relationship can send insecure and inappropriate messages. This action can cause the relationship to end prematurely, as it creates the wrong impression.

To give a key

Giving away a key too early can indicate a lack of readiness for proper intimacy. You need to help create healthy boundaries and respect personal space.

To show up unexpectedly at work

You should respect your partner's space at work and avoid showing up unexpectedly. Let him/her talk about you and after a few months you can pay him/her a special visit.

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Source: Your Tango